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Mortified – Live and in Person

January 6, 2006 by darby


Embrace Via Embarrasment by Lui Liu

On a constant path towards clean and uncluttered space, every once in a while, I find myself nose-deep in journals I have written and revisit crushes from the past. My perspective often seems so dramatic when I read it years later, and is almost always FULLY LAUGHABLE. But I keep the damn journals, for some reason. To remind myself of my growth? Or to ensure everyone a good laugh at my expense once I leave this earth. Either way, what I find is often funny (even though it wasn’t meant to be when I wrote it) or painful, in a funny kinda way. Certain drunken evenings have inspired me to read aloud to my best girlfriends, which proved hilarious and even a bit cathartic, after I got over the embarrassment part.

In the same vein, Dave Nadelberg has created Mortified, “starring everyday adults sharing aloud their most embarrasing, pathetic and private teenage diary entries…” to provide “personal redemption through public humiliation.” These live performances started in L.A. and are now featured in NYC, San Fran, and Boston. And if you’re thinking of reading, you have to audition. Nearly half of those who audition are rejected. Now THAT’S mortifying.

On a side note and in the spirit of revealing oneself, I kept a particular diary when I was living in Colorado with my first love. It was a tumultuous love affair that ended with, shall we say, legal frustrations. An ugly period of lawyers and courthouses ensued, and I wrote about all of it – from the initial meeting of past love through all of the angst that led up to the split. In an attempt at concealing any incriminating evidence, I passed this diary on to an acquaintance who lived down the street, and haven’t seen it since. That was over 15 years ago. I was 19. Mortifying.

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  1. stefania says

    January 7, 2006 at 7:35 am

    Hi! 1st, love the drawing you used..
    2nd, I tend to revisit the items that were written to me, not by me.. I don’t know, I think I’m not ready to face the shame!
    ๐Ÿ™‚
    Perhaps one day, such courage will strike..

  2. darby says

    January 7, 2006 at 9:53 am

    Stefania,

    I think that some people use letter’s that were written TO them…perhaps you should dig up some of the good ones you have (I know you got ’em, girl…) and audition when you come home to the States. Start a Chicago chapter…

  3. Gwen says

    January 9, 2006 at 4:13 pm

    I too have faced the mortification/enjoyment of reading my old journal entries. “Mortified”is a neat idea. Reminds me of one of my new online obsessions, Post Secret(http://postsecret.blogspot.com/) in a way.

  4. Garmachi says

    January 9, 2006 at 6:29 pm

    This has nothing to do with the story above, but I felt like sharing it with you! Apparently “Capote” is Tops among critics.

    http://www.eonline.com/News/Items/0,1,18110,00.html

    Since Darby’s on a whirlwind nationwide tour to promote Capote, I thought you’d like to read this. Oh, and you can bet that if I were saying this instead of typing it, “promote” and “Capote” would rhyme.

    Love ya,

    G$

  5. min says

    January 27, 2006 at 8:56 am

    hi, ms darby, this is mrs liu. i bumped in here and found my husband art work that i named and it happens to be my favorite too… will be back to read more of your writing. lui has a new web site: http://www.luiliu.com

    min

  6. Mark Buban says

    February 7, 2006 at 9:00 am

    Thinking about old journals makes me think I haven’t learned a fucking thing from past mistakes…which is depressing on some level. We’ve all experienced what we have in this life, which has gotten us to where we are now…but, really, where the fuck are we?

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